by Vic Odarve.
We were constantly troubled
by their frequent quarrels as one of their long-time neighbors. Even minor
conflicts are routinely addressed with insults, mocking, and yelling. The
engaged couple revealed that they had fought for 30 years. They remained
together for the sake of their children. The woman eventually decided to
deliberately leave her husband for good now that they were all adults with
their own families. She chose to live alone because divorce was illegal in her
country. "I love him, but my patience has already reached the point that I
had to leave him”, the wife told the barangay captain before signing the
paperwork. I am sorry. "It's just okay," the husband said, "I
can understand what she wanted. “The couple decided to sign a mutual agreement
to live separately.
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Couple in quarrel |
Ten years had passed. Their eldest son and youngest daughter
decided to go on a wedding vow. Both were invited. The ceremony was performed
in one of the city's luxurious hotels. Sitting at the first table together with
the newlyweds, the couple, now an old man and a lady, sat near to each other
during dinner time. Both were quiet. As the dinner started, the old man
immediately gave a piece of lechon manok to the lady and said, "Take this,
it’s your favorite." The wife said, "This is the problem; you think
so highly of yourself and have never thought of how I feel. Don’t you know that
I hate lechon manok? " The old man’s temper was raised, but he managed to
control it. Keeping silent for a while, he just behaved as if he had not heard
anything, knowing that mumbling something would end in a quarrel.
After the social affair, they returned eagerly to where they
lived. That night, both could not sleep. The old man got a bottle of local wine
and got drunk. He phoned his old lady and sincerely wanted to tell her he was
sorry for the lechon manok and to inform her that he still loved her. He never
stopped calling her. He was deeply depressed.
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Teach the child the meaning of life |
On the other hand, the wife was still angry and could not
understand how, after all these years, he still did not understand her that she
hated lechon manok. But she still loved him. At that point, she decided not to
answer no matter how the phone rang, knowing it was him.
The next day, a neighbor informed her that a man had died
from a heart attack. And that was the time he had tried in vain to contact her.
It was then she remembered he had previously had a heart problem. The last text
she received that night said, "My dearest wife, I want you to know I will
always be at your side, even to the ends of the world." I love you. "
Sometimes we think marriage life is a bed of roses. But it
is not! For a couple, both must learn how to love each other.
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